Tuesday, November 4, 2014

Church Abandons Men Then Demands They Man Up To Save It

Isn't this typical. All the endless catering to the women and the marginalization of men within the church has led to one completely unpredictable result. The men in turn have abandoned the church.

Who would have ever guessed that would happen?

It's ok though because the church has come up with a solution to this very problem. I'm sure you will never guess what that is either. Not in a million years.

Wait for it.... Wait... Here it comes...

In These Dark Days, the Church Needs Her Men to be Men

BOOM!!!... SURPISE!!!... YAAAY!!!... WOO HOOO!!!

Now why didn't I think of that?

If the ladies will pardon me (for women have their own sort of strength), I want to issue a special summons to men, especially fathers, husbands, and priests. The summons is simple: be a man.

Pardon me ladies but you can kiss my ass.


This is the whole problem in a nutshell. If you want to save the churches from burning to the ground stop pouring gasoline on the fire! Stop coddling to these church ladies and start booting the trouble makers out. Start calling these con artists out for what they are.

Professional Victims.

But since the churches will never do that it leaves me no choice but to boot them along with the chruch out of my life and by virtue of yet another one of these "Man Up" S.O.S. posts from the sinking ship I'm not the only one who has come to that same conclusion.

It has often been observed that men are rather disengaged from the practice of the faith and attendance at the Sacred Liturgy. Frankly, there is a reason—not a politically correct one, but a reason nonetheless. Most of the men I talk to find the Church rather feminized. There is much talk in the Church about forgiveness and love, about receptivity and about being “nicer.” These are fine virtues, all of them necessary. But men also want to be engaged, to be sent into battle, to go forth and make a difference.

Wrong again, men want to know they are not going to get sold out by the very people who are asking them to go out and fight those battles. Meaning stop automatically shunning the men who are still left fighting the battles the nanosecond his Christian In Name Only wife files for divorce because she is not haaaaapppeeeee.... Don't assume just because she files for divorce and says he is the bad guy that there is any truth to it.

Above all stop letting them get remarried after the first divorce. I think it actually says that somewhere in the Bible. The church has got to start enforcing its own rules before it can ask men anything more of them otherwise men will man up by putting their foot down on the church.

After years of radical feminism, men are shamed for seeking to take up leadership and authority in their families and in the Church. It starts early. Any normal boy is full of spit and vinegar, is aggressive, competitive, and anxious to test his wings. But many boys are scolded, punished, and even medicated for these normal tendencies. They are told to behave more like girls and to learn to be nicer and to get along, etc. It will be granted that limits are necessary, but the tendency for boys to roughhouse is normal. The scolding and “socializing” to more feminine traits continues apace into early adulthood. And then there are other cultural phenomena such as the slew of “Men are stupid” commercials, etc.

Oh that's right, men are stupid, thanks for reminding me, so why do you need us again?

Though many in past decades have sought to describe the Church as “male-dominated,” nothing could be further from the truth. Most parish leadership structures are dominated by women. And women do fine work. But the Church has done a very poor job of engaging men as men and equipping them to be strong husbands, fathers, and priests. Virtues related to bold leadership and the effective use of authority are in short supply whereas other virtues such as collaboration, listening, empathy, and understanding are overemphasized. This lack of balance, wherein traditionally manly virtues are downplayed—even shamed—has led many men to become disengaged from the Church.

Who's fault is that? Who let them take over when they should have been kicking them to the curb? How is this my problem?

It's not and the reason men have been abandoned by the church is because the church has abandoned God first. In the place of God is the worship of women. The worship of their feelings. Everything is geared towards them. They can do no wrong and of course men are the devil.

Everything that men do is somehow wrong though but men are wising up to the scam. We already know that the "Man Up" bait is only a trap. An opportunity for the Victim Class to carp on even more about how everything men do for the church is wrong. 

Fine with me because I'm not falling for it anyway and I'm pretty sure that increasingly I'm not the only one either.

MGTOW... Manning Up And Walking Out.


patriarchal landmine said...

they stomped on our open hands while spitting in our faces. they laughed at our broken shells while we fantasized about eating a bullet.

now we gotta come to their rescue? yea, good luck with that shit, god.

Anonymous said...

If the church leaders were honest, they'd tell men to stay out of church and to never give any woman any level of power over their lives. Why? Hades hath no fury like that of a woman scorned.

But we all know the church isn't going to do this. Instead, they're going to continue shame men into doing all sorts of stupid, life destroying things, like getting married.

Globally, hundreds upon hundreds of millions of men have been destroyed through marriage. In the US alone, given an average of one million divorces a year for 45 years, there have been 45 million divorces. Men pay 90+% of alimony and child support. Women file the majority of divorces. Women nearly always get custody of "her kids".

Society is geared toward getting men to invest of themselves in institutions that destroy men's lives. Why? Men are now and will always be the disposable gender.

Cultural misandry has been so carefully implemented that most are blind to its existence and insist that misandry is a myth. Misandry is so common that it just seems normal to most.

The hypocrisy and double standards that the church uses to denigrate men are inspired by the overtly gynocentric, godless worship and pedastalization of women.

MGTOW for Life

Anonymous said...

Hey REX!

If you weren't pissed off before, you will be after reading this site.

The biggest lie ever told: Men are privileged.


I'm off to punch holes in walls.

Anonymous said...

who gives a fuck about some retarded religion like Christianity or any religious institution for that matter?

are you a baby boomer?

Cybro said...

Good link, I can use that in the future. I'm not mad but the truth about what men really go through and the hypocrisy they face by women and society should be told.

The Real Sexism Project

I will certainly add it to my required reading list.

Anonymous said...

"Good link, I can use that in the future. I'm not mad but the truth about what men really go through and the hypocrisy they face by women and society should be told."

The funny thing is, women don't see it. All they see is constant victimhood. Most men don't see it either. They just accept their fate as disposable ATMs. I don't know which is worse - the men or the women. At least men can say that they've been taught to view themselves as disposable - if they ever wake up to that reality.

Cybro said...

Of course they don't see it. Telling any woman that the current system doesn't work for men is meaningless to them. Because the current system works great for women.

That's all that matters to them.

It's like telling a communist that communism doesn't work. That doesn't matter to them because communism works great for a communist.

It's the people at the end of the barrel or under the boot who don't see it that way.

But I'll tell you what does get their attention, Going Your Own Way. Notice who shrieks the loudest and who builds the fences, the prisons to keep men from running off. A society gone bad knows unconsciously or instinctively MGTOW is the end of the free ride for them.

Anonymous said...

"At least men can say that they've been taught to view themselves as disposable - if they ever wake up to that reality."

Oh, men do wake up to that reality. It may take many years, and end up being too late to prevent damage, but awaken we do!

We discover that a home repair we just made has to be redone because no one living on his dime cares enough to not abuse the domestic infrastructure. We note that the fridge is filled with crap we won't or can't eat, with a serious lack of that which we will or can. Our sleep gets disturbed when something on TV needs to be turned up loud enough for the neighbors to enjoy so that the laughter doesn't bury the sound track.

Enough of this, and every married man (and many unmarried but in long-term relationships) ask themselves, WTF? Only then does the lamp illuminate, and all of the things which bothered him for many years and went without explanation suddenly make sense. It all becomes clear.

So he gets to make a decision. The result of the decision depends on whether he can afford to pay off the parasites living off of him to go away. If so, out they go. If not, he has to find ways to keep himself sane without resorting to felonious criminality. Can't maintain one's regained awareness of freedom if one is incarcerated!

While it's too late for the likes of me, my example can serve as a warning to those young men ensnared in the Temptations of Eve to the point where his lower head is doing all the thinking.

Turn that off long enough to use the upper head. Look to see what you are doing to yourself. Then ask yourself, "Why would I want to screw up a good life by surrendering all control over it to someone else? Someone whose interests are not to my benefit? Whose motivations are to nurture and defend her offspring at my expense no matter what it does to me?"

Sex is nice. Sex is fun. But the cost is usually far too dear to afford.

Take The Red Pill said...

"...Sex is nice. Sex is fun..."

True, when the sex is good AND you are genuinely satisfied that the price that you pay is worth it.
But sooner or later, you have to ask yourself if the QUALITY and AMOUNT of sex you're getting is worth the price that you're paying.

Next to Marriage 2.0, the sexual 'bait-and-switch' scheme that women sell to men is one of the greatest con-jobs in history.
And the majority of women are so puzzled why some men GTOW.

Ken said...

My wife keeps telling me I should give a talk to our adult fellowship. Oh, how I'd like to do that! The problem is, I'm sure I wouldn't be allowed to finish and my wife would find it even harder to be in denial about our problems.

Cybro said...

Yes, that is exactly my point, thank you.

The pastors will scream at men to man up and be a leader of the family but look at what happens when he does. As soon as a man leads in the direction his wife is not happy with all hell breaks lose. It becomes a power struggle. Suddenly he is a "bad" husband, he is not a "good" example so she should divorce him...

On and on it goes, egged on by her "Christian" friends until she does file because "she deserves better" of course.

He gets no support from the pastors for actually manning up and absolutely no support from the congregation. If they do anything they pile on. They pour gasoline on the fire.

I have seen this many times then they wonder like in the post men abandon a church that has abandoned them in the first place.

Men get wise to the scam and realize that there is no point in hanging around a no win situation with these hypocrites.

Jones said...

"He gets no support from the pastors ..."

They behave as if they are a divine right Human Relations department -- this should not be a surprise.

More to the point, why should you give your future Inquisitors evidence against you?

I'd trust a barman before I'd trust a pastor.

One Fat Oz Guy said...

I'm reminded of my imbalanced ex who would nag and nit-pick at everything I did, even to the point of trying to start fights, only to act completely surprised when I left.
What did they think was going to happen!?!
If I walk into a party that's playing rock music and then take away all rock music and will only let people listen to classical music because it's less angry, I can't then complain when people leave to go home or to another party.
The cries of these church 'leaders' reminds me very much of my ex: "please don't go, I was only trying to help you improve yourself".
No thank you!

Elusive Wapiti said...

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Cybro said...

Polygamy is the end result of Pussy Begging (PUA) not MGTOW.

Mormon Founder Had Up to 40 Wives

History repeating itself and that is what's really going on here.

These pastors that scream at men to Man Up don't really want men to Man Up. They just want to scream at men to Man UP as if they are the Big Man. It's all a show for the ladies like a Peacock fluffing his feathers.

By doing that it sends out an emotional charge to the women that the Peacock must be the Real Man in the equation. It's pastoral Pussy Begging conducted by bullshit artists. Any man that sits in those churches allowing himself to be the target of the abuse needs to Man Up and walk out of there.

Don't take that crap and if it's the bullshit artists, the guys who will stay in the rear with the bear while demanding you Man Up and fight the wars for God and country are what the ladies want.

Then they can all have each other.