Tuesday, August 12, 2014
MGTOW Don't Owe "Society" Anything
Here we go again, another man shaming men to man-up-and-marry for the big win while completely ignoring the past 20 to 40 years of evidence as to what happens to men when they actually do make that mistake.
Men's Movement: Flipside of Feminism?
While I'm not interested in what he has to say about MRAs and PUAs I do want to address the errors directed at MGTOW.
The MGTOW have a slogan "My Wallet, My Choice" which is a way of saying that men should be able to get women pregnant and avoid the consequences, having nothing to do with his seed.
MGTOW don't advocate pumping-and-dumping, that is what PUAs do but it is our wallets and it is our choice to avoid both dating and pumping-and-dumping.
It's preposterous, and something a healthy society wouldn't allow.
And there is a lot of things a healthy man wouldn't allow this "society" to do to him given the opportunity to avoid it. While some taxation is necessary. The complete financial confiscation through the Divorce / Family court industry is what is preposterous.
So we opt out of the system.
We don't get married, we don't shack up and we don't knock females up.
Feminists are told to love fashion, shoes, handbags and celebrity, as well as the obvious drinking and casual sex. The obsession with clothing and appearance is taken to whole new levels. The array of beauty products and options for cosmetic surgery and procedures available to today's young female is staggering, and creates a deep dissatisfaction in young women who view themselves as inadequate, because they cannot live up to the impossible standards set by the media.
No person, male or female can be subverted simply by being told anything unless they wanted to be subverted in the first place. Go try tell a Feminist to forgo university and stay at home with children. Be sure to ad that it's for the children.
See how well that goes over.
Women are suckered in by this false view family life as boring and useless, and also develop unrealistic expectations. It's a pit of misery, for both sexes and exacerbates all the existing problems.
They were suckered alright and I have always said that the joke was on them. They bought the lie, they wanted to have it both ways and they still do.
Both foster self-love and hyper-individualism.
MGTOW do have self respect which is not to be confused with the self obsessed narcissism of Feminism.
Humans are not solitary animals, we are designed to cooperate with each other for the good of the whole.
MGTOW are individualistic as men should be but that is something Feminists certainly aren't and absolutely loath. That being they are Collectivists believing what's theirs is theirs and what's men's is theirs too.
When we deviate from this, we see nothing but gross unhappiness and the anesthetics needed to cope with it - drugs, alcohol, materialism, promiscuity, gambling, and so on.
I can go my own way from those disorders as well, be perfectly happy in the process and I'm sure plenty of other men would agree.
A man cannot produce offspring without a woman, and vice-versa. Therefore, without solid and strong bonds, where will children come from?
Don't worry, they'll come and feel free to bang out as many as you like.
Casual sex is often negated by birth-control methods like abortion. Babies and children need a stable, loving, two-parent home.
Agreed, now try preaching that one to the Feminists who aim to corral children in a village where no men, especially their fathers are allowed.
Men cannot abdicate their social responsibilities and be considered men.
Men don't have any responsibilities they don't agree to accept. To force them on men against their will was considered slavery in the past. Which is exactly what Feminists want.
For men to be their slaves.
It's time to turn this around, and not be afraid of the agenda, and refuse to play its silly little games.
I agree, the only winning move for men in this silly little game is not to play.
MGTOW... How about a nice game of chess?
at 12:01:00 AM