Wednesday, April 23, 2014
This Is What Happened To All The Nice Guys
Hate to break this to the ladies but many men in their 30's and 40's are starting to realize that they would have to be crazier than the females around them to get involved in any kind of relationship with them.
Dear Girls Who Are (Finally) Ready To Date Nice Guys: We Don’t Want You Anymore
I was wonderful to you, I was a gentleman. I treated you with respect, like a lady deserves to be treated. I enjoyed your company and you had my full attention. I didn’t expect anything in return except a chance to win your heart. I’m stable, I’m a good provider, I want marriage and kids in my future. I’m the man of your dreams, but you couldn’t see that. Or maybe you just didn’t care. You were pretty preoccupied with your texting.
But now you’re ready to date me? Really? You’ll excuse me if I’m not jumping for joy. You’ve dissed me, rejected me, took advantage of me, dodged my goodnight kiss and couldn’t wait to get away from me. Now suddenly you want me?
Sorry, I’m not buying it.
I get it though, now that you’re on the downside of 30, the wrinkles are starting, the body is sagging and you have stretch marks and that c-section scar from pushing out that bad boy’s rugrat. I know it was impossible to see that that deadbeat irresponsible jerk was actually a deadbeat irresponsible jerk, but that’s not my problem. While you were waiting for those texts that never came I was busy getting my career in order and maximizing my credit score. Now my biggest issue is deciding which color Audi I’m going to buy.
Why in the world would I choose to take on you and your problems?
From the trail of bad boys and the mistreatment you tolerated, no, invited into your life and seeing all the drama you created for yourself, I can only conclude that you don’t need a nice guy, you need therapy!
I’m a simple guy and like my life uncomplicated. You are the human embodiment of drama and chaos, I’d have to be crazier than, well… YOU to take on your baggage.
Amen brother and this sounds familiar. I remember another famous rant from 2007. A year after I started this blog.
"What Happened to All the Nice Guys?"
The answer is simple: you did.
So, if you're looking for a nice guy, here's what you do:
1.) Build a time machine.
2.) Go back a few years and pull your head out of your ass.
3.) Take a look at what's right in front of you and grab ahold of it.
I suppose the other possibility is that you STILL don't really want a nice guy, but you feel the social pressure to at least appear to have matured beyond your infantile taste in men. In which case, you might be in luck, because the nice guy you claim to want has, in reality, shed his nice guy mantle and is looking for someone like you.
If you were five years younger.
So, please: either stop misrepresenting what you want, or own up to the fact that you've fucked yourself over. You're getting older, after all. It's time to excise the bullshit and deal with reality. You didn't want a nice guy then, and he certainly doesn't want you, now.
A Recovering Nice Guy
Ah yes I remember that one. You can go to the link to read the whole thing. When I read that I had to laugh.
It really hit home for me back then.
Why was I trying to be nice to post wall post carousel bad boy leftovers?
No way, not me, not anymore. I was done then and I'm still done now. And I'm sure I wont be missed.
MGTOW... Being nice to myself for a change.
at 1:16:00 AM