Monday, June 3, 2013
MGTOW Is Not About Revenge
It's about doing what's best for you in your world.
Just in case I haven't made this clear before I'll say it again because it does need repeating.
Any man that has been burned by relationships, by the system, been taken advantage of because he was still in NAWALT mode before he took the Red Pill. Decides after the fact that if it's games women like to play then let the games begin, is taking a course of action that is a complete waste of time and energy.
Long ago when I was in situations that had to do with work or some organization where people would rather fight and play games than work together I used to have that mind set of playing counter games. I would keep a ledger in my mind of all the times I got screwed over which fueled my anger and desire for revenge. What ended up happening is I was never satisfied when I did strike back. I just kept getting angry all over again and the process would repeat itself.
Then one day I woke up and realized I was tired of being angry all the time. Always having my guard up against others. Always looking for opportunities to strike back. I said to myself I'm done with all this. I'll help anyone who wants my help and anyone else who can figure out a way to get anything out of me and get away with it can have it.
That decision was the very beginning of going my own way before there was even a term for it. Later on I applied that thinking to the relationships I got involved in. Before I gave up on them completely. If things worked out I would stay but if I found myself getting jerked around or getting angry I would move on thinking NAWALT. Just kicked their ass to the curb and moved on. I never wasted my time and energy looking for revenge and I still don't.
Now there is this idea floating around out there that since feminists have gotten away with all these awful things it's time for some payback. I'm warning you guys not to get caught up in that kind of thinking. What you will be doing is playing right into the hands of females who love to stir up hate and discontent. They do it out of pure petty vindictiveness. They hate their lives so they want you to hate yours too.
Don't give them that.
Move on with your life, focus on whatever works for you and avoid what doesn't. Anyone or any organization that gives you more trouble than they are worth simply boot them out of your life. In that way you will do more to piss off the feminist than you ever would actively fighting against them.
In fact your happiness to them is what a cross is to a vampire. They can't stand looking at it and it infuriates them when they do see it.
In the end MGTOW shouldn't be used as some sort of tool for vengeance or even an attempt to change the world. If the MRA's want to change the world they can have it and if the PUA's want to grudge fuck chicks for whatever reasons risking a false rape accusation that's their Game. I would stay away from all that.
What MGTOW can do is change the world around them and I suggested men make that world a positive place for themselves as opposed to a slaving away in one where it's the females well being who has the priority.
That last part is what females can't stand when men go their own way.
And by the way, MGTOW is not when you marry your girlfriend because it's what she wants. That's going her way not yours. That will be how females will try to twist MGTOW around into their own solipsistic purposes.
at 2:56:00 PM