Monday, June 3, 2013

MGTOW Is Not About Revenge

It's about doing what's best for you in your world.   

Just in case I haven't made this clear before I'll say it again because it does need repeating.

Any man that has been burned by relationships, by the system, been taken advantage of because he was still in NAWALT mode before he took the Red Pill. Decides after the fact that if it's games women like to play then let the games begin, is taking a course of action that is a complete waste of time and energy.

Long ago when I was in situations that had to do with work or some organization where people would rather fight and play games than work together I used to have that mind set of playing counter games. I would keep a ledger in my mind of all the times I got screwed over which fueled my anger and desire for revenge. What ended up happening is I was never satisfied when I did strike back. I just kept getting angry all over again and the process would repeat itself.

Then one day I woke up and realized I was tired of being angry all the time. Always having my guard up against others. Always looking for opportunities to strike back. I said to myself I'm done with all this. I'll help anyone who wants my help and anyone else who can figure out a way to get anything out of me and get away with it can have it.

I'm done.

That decision was the very beginning of going my own way before there was even a term for it. Later on I applied that thinking to the relationships I got involved in. Before I gave up on them completely. If things worked out I would stay but if I found myself getting jerked around or getting angry I would move on thinking NAWALT. Just kicked their ass to the curb and moved on. I never wasted my time and energy looking for revenge and I still don't.

Now there is this idea floating around out there that since feminists have gotten away with all these awful things it's time for some payback. I'm warning you guys not to get caught up in that kind of thinking. What you will be doing is playing right into the hands of females who love to stir up hate and discontent. They do it out of pure petty vindictiveness. They hate their lives so they want you to hate yours too.

Don't give them that.

Move on with your life, focus on whatever works for you and avoid what doesn't. Anyone or any organization that gives you more trouble than they are worth simply boot them out of your life. In that way you will do more to piss off the feminist than you ever would actively fighting against them.

In fact your happiness to them is what a cross is to a vampire. They can't stand looking at it and it infuriates them when they do see it.

In the end MGTOW shouldn't be used as some sort of tool for vengeance or even an attempt to change the world. If the MRA's want to change the world they can have it and if the PUA's want to grudge fuck chicks for whatever reasons risking a false rape accusation that's their Game. I would stay away from all that.

What MGTOW can do is change the world around them and I suggested men make that world a positive place for themselves as opposed to a slaving away in one where it's the females well being who has the priority.

That last part is what females can't stand when men go their own way.

And by the way, MGTOW is not when you marry your girlfriend because it's what she wants. That's going her way not yours. That will be how females will try to twist MGTOW around into their own  solipsistic purposes.


JJ said...

used to think this mgtow business was extreme but as time goes on i'm finding it less so and more practical in this day

Anonymous said...

Feminist claim how they need a man like a fish needs a bicycle but then go apeshit whenever a guy goes MGTOW removing his support for their society.

Take The Red Pill said...

Something that the feminasties didn't EVER think would happen was that one day the bicycles would realize that they don't need fish, either!

So be a Happy Bicycle!!
Ditch the fish, and GYOW!

hans said...

Very good article!

"The only way to win is to not play the game."

This bike is happiest when it can drive around all those flapping fish..

Anonymous said...


Anonymous said...

this is John Rambo, Anti-Feminist Soldier. I am posting this on behalf of Peter-Andrew: Nolan© also now known as Joschua-Brandon: Boehm©. I am doing this because, as a young men who knows Peter well, I know he has our best interests at heart.

It is well known that five years ago, April 2008, I spent a month suicidal as I went through the process of disowning my former children. When I came out of that rather unpleasant experience I contacted other men who had been similarly affected. I realized that many men were killing themselves because of the criminal abuse of the family law courts all across the western English speaking world.

As a direct result of this experience, and my compassion for my fellow men, I made a vow in June 2008 to re-introduce the rule of law into Australia and Ireland. Naturally, at the time I made the vow I had no idea how that might be done. We call it “throw your hat over the wall”. You make the vow and “figure it out later”.

Along the way I have talked to many tens of thousands of men, perhaps as many as 100,000 men have seen at least one comment by me one way or another. What I heard from men in 2008 was that they were DESPERATE for a remedy for the crimes being committed against them in the family courts. They were DESPERATE to find a way to end the criminal effects of feminism on their lives. Because so many men told me the same thing I mistook this to mean they actually WANTED to solve the problems of the family courts and feminism. As I said. My mistake.

Through very extensive research and labour, and collaborating with the best and brightest, the remedy for both the family courts and feminism was proven on 2009-11-26. A mere 18 months after I was suicidal. The court meeting that I did on 2009-11-26 I regard as one of the finest achievements of my life. Regardless? The very men I risked my life to create a remedy for have ignored that remedy, preferring to whine, bitch, moan and complain because that is far more rewarding to them than actually solving their problems. If they solved their problems they would have nothing to whine, bitch, moan and complain about.

The remedy has now been available 2.5 times as long as it took to develop and has proved uniquely unpopular. I am hated for even talking about it. The blood of every man who kills himself due to criminal abuse in the family courts is on the hands of those perhaps 100,000+ men who have heard from me and done nothing. I did all I could. They did not. It is actually very simple.

The mechanism for men to free themselves now is the Mens Business Association. The MBA provides individual based services to get men out of the control grid. Such services may well save the mans life from suicide. Going forward? It is necessary to create second economy outside the control of any government entity. Why criminals in governments can dominate and control men via the economy they will continue to do so. There is no reason for them to stop. The MBA is the proposal of a second economy outside the control of the government. This is a NECESSARY ingredient for men to live in freedom.

Only a small percentage of men will want to live in freedom. Those men who want to live in freedom? You are invited to watch a short update on how we are going in our efforts to get the second economy going. Naturally? The second economy will grow just as quickly or slowly as men join in and contribute to it. Those who want to “stick with the government run economies”? You are welcome to do so. I wish you luck with that because you are going to need it.

best regards

your brother peter

Wraith said...

(The first verification word is 'consequence.' Oh, the irony!)

I've found that one of the best ways to tell the good women from the bad ones, is that the bad ones cannot stand it when you're not paying attention to them.

The MGTOW strategy, therefore, cannot be described as anything less than absolute genius. It not only protects us, but exposes the truth behind the 'feminism' of today.