Married Men Are So Happy!

 
Man I tell you what, these married guys around me or some happy campers. Makes my wonder why I never signed the contract myself.

Every day, all day it's the same damn thing. They come in every morning pissed off about some ongoing drama. It's like a bunch of crazy homeless guys all ranting at each other over the same old shit their wives are always giving them just like every other day before that.

Then later in the day the phone calls come in on their cells and the cycle of ranting starts all over again.  

It goes something like this.

• incoming ringtones of various vibes, sounds and melodies...
• furious clicks... followed by exclamations of...
• Fucking Bitch!  
• Fucking bitch wants this...
• Fucking bitch wants that...
• Fucking bitch won't do this...
• Fucking bitch won't do that... 
• Fucking bitch won't shut up about...
• Fucking bitch is never happy...
• Fucking bitch blew X amount of $$$ on... (some stupid crap)
• Fucking bitch doesn't won't to cook tonight... so now I have to...
• Fucking bitch won't clean the house... always a mess...  
• Fucking bitch says I don't make enough... ($$$ to blow on some stupid crap)
• Fucking bitch won't get a job either...
• Fucking bitch is saying I don't spend enough time with her... (because he has to make $$$ so she can blow on stupid crap and won't get a job to have $$$ to blow on stupid crap)
• Fucking bitch want's me to sell my bike, car, boat... ad nauseum,
• Fucking bitch doesn't want me to get that bike, car, boat... ad nauseum,
• Fucking bitch, (they look to me) don't ever get fucking married, (no argument there).

That's about the jest of it, I could add more but I think you get the idea.

End result is I don't say anything. What can I say anyway?

These guys are doomed and they don't even know it.  

In fact, this is where I go out of my way to stay quiet. They tend to get aggravated if I start talking about the things I do on my free time. Which I have plenty of and that's what gets them irritated. Free time is something they don't have anymore.  If there ever was a group of people that hated you for your freedoms it's the married guys that are it. Misery loves company and they absolutely loath other guys who are happy and free with their lives. 

It's not that they hate me personally it just that I'm a constant reminder of their slavery. It's like the way communists hated the American flag because of the freedom it represented. I wonder if it is any coincidence that the MGTOW flag bares a similitude to an earlier yellow and black American flag?

Now days there seems to be a bit of animosity directed at any men who can preserve their freedoms. If only in the slightest measures by staying out of relationships and marriage with females. Men who can keep their obligations down and their options open.

Conversely when women do the same it's all considered empowerment. Sometimes I want to thank Feminism for diverting women into useless occupations where they become corporate and government problems as opposed to mine.  Ironically it was Feminism that freed me of the fate I see befall other men stupid enough to still sign a marriage contract. 

The sad thing is I see these guys like I have seen so many other men before them. In the pre-divorce phase of their marriages. It's right about the time the two or three kids have come along, their sex life is over, they are nothing but a worker drone for a queen bee who keeps them chained to the fire emotionally and legally. It all goes downhill from there. 

Nature is more merciful when the female kills the male after the mating is over.  

Little do they know their slavery and misery are only just beginning.

Hey I Haven't Been Happier Since I Cut Females Out Of My Life

What is this crap about MGTOW hating on women... again?

I got news for Miss Woolybumblebee.

We don't hate women we just don't give a rationalization hamsters ass about them anymore.



Now who the hell in the Manosphere said they wanted to kill all women?

I have never seen any comments like that and if they do exist it was probably a false flag posted by one of the Manboobz type crowd. Otherwise it never happens as far as I can tell.

And what is this crap about the majority of  men going around "not healed"?

Yo bubblehead, some of us tried to be nice guys and it doesn't work. No big deal, we get it, we understand and yes we worked it out. Nothing left to be done there. Then we moved on to whatever does works for us. That can be either MGTOW walking off the battle field or men amping up their Game to adjust to the hostile environment.

Either way who's complaining? It is what it is. The Manosphere has the upper hand and you are pissing in the wind. Maybe that's wrong for you, for your gender but it's not for us.

So this notion that the problem isn't with women but with feminism is like saying it isn't the fall that kills men but the sudden stop that does is preposterous.

Whatever.

Is this chick a FemaleMRA?

Good luck with that one AvFM.

A Feminist Not So Enjoying the Decline

Like I have said before, any man who doesn't like the way the system is stacked against him doesn't have to do anything but dump his support for it, go his own way and let gravity take care of the rest.

Now this just in from a Feminist who isn't happy about the way things are going. Better yet the way the money isn't coming as much as she would like it to.

Why feminism needs to get radical again

Yeah baby that‘s it, double down and get radical… again. 

That’ll get the money flowing.

Actually, austerity is one of the really big things that we want to talk about. That's unsexy, [but] actually, what is the damn point of having a vote if you can't feed your bloody children?" She doesn't care about issues such as the dearth of women on FTSE boards, she says: 

"I care about bloody women who are affected by the fucking benefit cuts, but I don't really care about that other thing. I can't pretend I do."

Ok at least she's honest. That's why I have more respect for prostitutes than TradCon Feminists. 

Her thoughts unspool wildly, entertainingly, through utopian feminism, radical feminism and collectivism.

 Raven clearly isn't just looking to relaunch a magazine.

She wants to start a movement.

There you go boys. Hit em where it hurts and keep on hitting em.  Do your part to starve this beast and you will do far more than some whinny MRA crying about his rights he signed away in a Marriage 2.0 contract.

Hey now there’s an idea.

She can start the first Feminist Men’s Rights Activist Movement.  Just attach MRA to Feminist and those boys will be falling over themselves to join her movement and send her money.  

Easy money I promise.   

Oh by the way, notice you never see any ads, donate buttons or we need your support bullshit on this blog. 

Just want to point that out. 

Pussy Begging Explained

The video PUA's don't want you to see.



They can do whatever they want but anyone who has doubts about their claims are not alone.

Don't Be Her Emotional Tampon

I have said this before and a lot of you in the Man-O-Sphere have said this as well but I guess we have to keep repeating it. Because there are so many young ones out there that just don't get it. Maybe I'm wrong. Maybe they want to be a sucker but I sure don't allow myself to get played by these female professional victims. I'd like to think they don't either if other men pointed this stuff out to them too.

It happened today. I was listening to this young guy talk about his "friend". He is about 23 or 24 and his friend is the same age. Well this friend of his was having a bit of relationship problems... again. It seems she is just a perfectly nice girl who so happens to have the misfortune of dating men who end up abusing her. It's just beyond comprehension how she manages to attract only jerks in her life.

So this really nice, good guy friend of hers listens to all her troubles and does his best to convince her she should leave this bad boy who just like all the others is abusing her. She deserves better, of course.

Can anyone guess what happened next?

That's right, after using up her emotional tampon (nice guy friend) she went back to bad boy, to get smacked... again. Only to come running back to her emotional tampon (nice guy friend) to tell him all about it... again.

As far as I know this cycle from Bad Boy to Captain Save-A-Ho back to Bad Boys will continue for some time. I was not able to employ my Sith knowledge of the Dark Side of the Female Force to explain to him what was really going on. He was surrounded by too many White Knights coaching him how to save his "friend" for me to be able to do anything but shake my head.

At least he saw that much so maybe later on I can bend his ear. 

Look boys it's no accident that girls like this run into so many bad boys so often. They are looking for men that they can turn into jerks. Back in the day I think some one called these kind of females Frog Farmers. Chicks who turn Princes into Frogs instead of the other way around. Which are what most chicks are doing these days anyway. 

What they do is find some normally confident and cocky kid, yes the kind of traits the PUA's attempt to imitate, then proceed to shit test the shit out of him to get him smacking her. That's what all these shit tests are all about. Some women take these tests to lower levels than others but all women are like that. They all try to get a reaction out of you. Shitting on you. The ones that take it too far are the ones you need to dump and dump fast. 

Those are the ones who want you to throw them a beating. There is something seriously wrong with chicks who want to get beat up so they can play this victim game. Stay away from them. They will just keep coming back for more. You will end up in prison. They will play the eternal martyr at your expense.

Or Hey! Maybe I'm wrong about that too. Maybe you boys want to be Bad Boys. You may want to go to prison. You may like that dynamic. That's why I say Bad Boys and their Sluts deserve each other.   

On the other end of the spectrum is the Nice Guy who gets used as the Emotional Tampon. Don't be that guy either. You will not save her. In fact you are part of the problem. She doesn't want to be saved. She wants to play the victim. You are pouring as much fuel on the fire as the Bad Boy is and you are wasting all your time and energy in the process. 

If you want to focus on chicks focus on the ones who are focused on you. Not just focused on telling you about the current Bad Boy they are focused on. When they do cross the line into disrespecting you at least put them on ice for a couple of weeks. If they come back all nice maybe you can give them a second chance but if they do it again you better dump them for good. It's going to be all trouble after that. 

Let some other sucker, Good or Bad deal with it.  

Ignoring The Warning Signs

This dude is in the process of being cuckolded and he better dump this cheating whore before he gets left with 18 to 21 years of child support for a kid that won't even be his. 

This is honestly hard to do and for the longest time I've pretended that all was well, but recently I have something eating away at me and it's got me at a point where I don't know what to do.

I'm 28 years old, I've been dating my gf for just under 7 years. We've had our fair share of ups and downs like any relationship has, but now I'm beginning to question whether she's being totally honest with me. We are both very close with each others family, I guess that's expected after 7 years, in a way, you can say she's my parents daughter-in-law and I'm her parents son-in-law. I'm beginning to suspect her of cheating on me and it's hard to even type that message out. The thought of her going behind my back like this is almost too hard to even understand. I guess to catch you all up-to-speed I need to help you with understanding the chain of events leading up to this.

It started on Halloween of last year, we were at a costume pub crawl and I was playing DD (designated driver) she was intoxicated, and later in the night I saw her paying a lot of attention to her cell phone. Soon enough I caught a glimpse of a guys names she was texting. I let it go and asked her about it the following day when she sobered up. She mentioned that she flirts with guys, its only harmless and she does it cause it makes her feel good. I didn't like hearing that my gf was proactively flirting with other men but i let it slide. But being curious, I saw on her facebook (under her listed friends) a guys name who matched up with the one she texted. Next I noticed her taking interest in a college football team that she had no business knowing anything about, it was very strange for her, and then I noticed that the guy she was texting that night graduated from that college... Things are beginning to feel a little iffy to me. About a month and a half later she mentions that she has a business trip in this texas city that she had to go to for this project she's working on and it fell on the weekend. Funny (or not so funny) thing is that the city her business trip was in was the same city this guy lives in (google is very helpful).

Next she is going through her mail, paying bills, etc. and she puts on the table her credit card bill. To this day I wish I didnt see it because now what I saw haunts me in a way. she purchased the flight on her own personal credit card. Mind you she has a corporate credit card for ALL her business expenses... So now I'm thinking WTF is going on, but I never said anything, and I regret it to this day not approaching the subject immediately.

So, I did see the Credit card statement on accident for the flight, but with my curiousity killing me I looked at her recent one (snooped around which I'm not proud of) and noticed she was buying liquor when she was there. Which is very strange to me because usually when you're on a business trip you go out each night to restaurants, bars, etc. you don't go to liquor stores (she's not a big drinker anyways). And I map quested the liquor store and it was 1.4 miles away from the guys house who I'm questioning (once again google very helpful)...

Well, now i feel like a total POS because I have that feeling that she is cheating, maybe physical, maybe emotional, maybe both... The thought of either drives me nuts though. Last week she sent me an email stating she has to go back to that city for another business trip which is less than a month away. It makes me sick thinking about it.... I want to talk to her about everything I just wrote to you, but I'm confident that if I do that we will be breaking up. She thinks I question her too much and is getting fed up with it, and I feel that things are adding up too much. I haven't talked to my family about this because I don't want them to hate her if I was wrong. But all signs point to something going on...I've invested 7 years into this relationship and I want to make it work, but I don't want to be the only one trying. At times it seems that she's just going through the motions while I'm trying... I think I know what I need to do and maybe I just needed to write it out here first. I was cheated on before, it sucked, it seems that history has repeated itself yet again with me.

Question- How would you guys/girls bring it up? Should I just sit her down and talk calmly about it, asking her to be honest (even though she will likely deny)... Or do I just end it and let it be? When you snoop around and find something, how do you use that information? Because we all know once information comes out that you shouldn't have all bets are off... 

It's over dude, let some other sucker get stuck with her. Be thankful you never married her. Don't ignore the warning signs. Move on before it's too late and if you do decide to hang on to your "investment" be sure it gets a paternity test before your name goes on the Birth Certificate.  

That Will Never Be Me

Since the ladies like to piss and moan about what happened to all the good men, allow me to illustrate with this story I found as to generally what happened to a few of us. 

In short we made our observations and planned accordingly.

Passive Aggressive Woman

My wife turns everything I say against me, she has constant and inappropriate criticism about me when we are alone, and is always defensive when it comes to her own actions; she can’t take the slightest remark against her. She never appreciates things that are done around the home, she has no intimacy and leans towards a sexless marriage. She hates it when I talk with friends, or when I plan on doing some sort of social thing like fishing, going to a ball game, target shooting, etc… even though she says it’s OK to do it, I can still see it in her expressions.

Been married 25 years, and for the most part I ignore the above, I know I should have ran a long time ago… but I didn’t, mostly for my child’s sake, who knows?, maybe I have saved someone else from this miserable life style I’m in. I have looked back on my life just to reflect on how I use to be, then it suddenly dawns on me… this has compromised my emotional behavior badly. I’m am now just as messed up as she is and I truly don’t know how much longer I can go and keep my emotional sanity. What in the hell have I done to myself…

She has been a good mother, and a hard worker in which I’m glad of, especially due to fact I’m unemployed at the moment. We have worked hard together to have the things we have; we are blessed, because most everything is paid in full. Oh! Let me remind you that being unemployed comes with the constant criticism as mentioned above… note to self, “remember when you worked you never had enough time to spend at home” how ironic is that?

I have been to consoling, wife refused… she didn’t like what she was told btw, this was years ago, I listened to his advise and I’m aware of everything he said about the relationship, he was right, and it is manageable so long as you don’t get emotional compromised by it… people are people and will sometimes will be who they are, it’s up to you, if you can live with it.

Funny thing that my son (25 years old now) asked me a couple of years ago… Why are you still married? I couldn’t live like that… Has this affected him?… absolutely he is still single and very careful of who and what type of women he wants to spend his life with. 

I remember a few years ago when I was in Italy I was getting on an elevator to go back to my hotel room. There was a slightly older American couple already in there when the doors opened. The guy was standing in front and what I guess was his wife was standing behind him. The first thing I heard was her barking orders at the guy to get out of my way. As I stood to the side I could see her poking her finger in his back telling him to close the doors and hit whatever floor button she was telling him to push. 

The guy looked like a beaten dog that wanted to crawl under a porch and hide. His head was bent down, tail between his legs and I just knew he was constantly taking a ton of crap from this typical American female abomination. For whatever reason they were in Italy he clearly was not enjoying the trip while she appeared to be sadistically loving every minute of it. I wanted say something but I knew he would just get more shit for it later no matter if he said something back to me or not. So I just thought to myself "that will never be me." 

You ladies will never understand that you are your own worst enemies. Young men like the guy in the story are taking notice of your bad behavior and want nothing to do with you. If you ever really want decent men to come back to you, you better start policing your own. I know that will never happen but I'll say it anyway. 

More for the benefit of other men than you.